
Editor’s Note: Since this movie was released in June 2021, this review has spoilers. So, if you haven’t seen it bookmark this page and come back later.
Movie Overview
I saw the movie See for Me in audio description on Amazon Prime recently. I thought it would be a good topic to blog about for Disability Pride Month. See for Me is a suspense thriller where a young blind woman takes a cat/house sitting job in an isolated mansion. The role is played by an actual blind actor named Skyler Davenport who is also autistic and nonbinary. When three intruders break in, the female character, named Sophie, uses an app called See for Me to get help from a sighted volunteer and gamer named Kelly. The See for Me app is very similar to Be My Eyes and AIRA. Both smartphone apps are virtual assistants where a sighted person provides help via camera and microphone.
Not an Innocent Angel
I appreciated the fact Sophie was portrayed as a flawed human being. She was rude to her mother, the homeowner, Debra and the 911 operator. People can be rude, self-centered and jerks sometimes. This includes blind and low vision folks.
So many times blind people are portrayed as innocent, little angels that can do no wrong. But we are people just like anyone else. We lie, cheat and steal. We are no different and vision loss is not an excuse.

She was a thief too. She took one of the homeowner’s expensive bottles of wine. Then when the home invasion started and the robbers were breaking into the safe she wanted a piece of the action. She wanted some of the money, which she took and got away with in the end.
Blindness Not the Main Point
I like the fact her blindness was a presence but not the main focus in the movie. It is there on the screen for all to see but the characters don’t dwell on it. For example, in the scene where Sophie tells the robbers she is blind, they confirm it and then move on. They don’t make a big hairy deal about it.

It was a nice twist when Sophie turns off all the lights in the house using the breaker box. This evens the playing field a bit and moves things to her advantage. Likewise when she uses one of the robber’s cell phones to call the other one. When the phone rings she uses sound localization to penpoint where he is in the house. I use that technique all the time to find things I have dropped on the floor.
Role Played By Blind Person

I loved that Sophie was played by an actual blind person. This has been a sticky point in the disability community for a long time. Nondisabled actors playing disabled people when a disabled actor could have played that role. It seems we get it when it comes to other groups. Yes, it makes sense that a Black person actually play a Black character. But when it comes to the disabled the idea doesn’t transfer over for some reason. Davenport is obviously very talented and capable of playing this role.
Adjustment to Vision Loss is Realistic
You learn at the beginning of the movie Sophie is in the adjustment phase of her vision loss. She is grappling with retinitis pigmentosa, a degenerative eye disease causing blindness. This change in vision has dashed her Olympic dreams as a Downhill skier. So, she comes off as annoying and overly independent–not wanting help from anyone.
I get it. I was there myself. Over time I learned it was okay to occasionally accept help. A good example is when Sophie arrives at the home, Debra offers a walk-through. But Sophie is borderline rude giving a curt no thanks. I didn’t think it was wise to decline doing a walk-through a large house you have never been in before. When the home is burglarized, this bad decision causes Sophie problems.
Listening and Leaving Home Was Not Realistic
When Sophie first hears noises in the house she thinks it is the cat. She is cat/house sitting after all. Yes, that makes sense. But because she barely uses her white cane and didn’t get the walk-through she is having a hard time with navigation. I know she was checking on the cat thinking that was the source of the noise. But I would have listened a little more before moving around a huge unfamiliar house looking for a cat who already knows the territory. But this is part of what makes the movie, right?
Also, I would have been suspicious and cautious. She had reset the alarm after her foray outside to smoke and had to call See for Me to get help. The alarm didn’t go off. That would have told me something was off. Once I heard the drilling sound I would have known it was a home invasion or something really bad happening. She eventually did and called the police.

I didn’t think it was realistic that Sophie wanted to leave the house a soon as she knew it was being robbed. She heard the men coming in and was afraid. Although this is a true emotion, for a blind person acting on it is not wise. She was isolated, didn’t use her white cane much, and had no real idea of her location. It is cold and snowy outside. She had already experienced this earlier when she locked herself out of the house. So, if you leave the house what happens? How do you really get away?
Her desire to leave was just not real in my mind. I would have sheltered in place. Kept quiet and continued to listen until help came.
Perplexed About Shooting Robbers

Sophie uses her See for Me virtual assistant, Kelly. She shows Sophie how to aim one of the robber’s guns and fire. Now this was interesting. I am not a gun owner and never interacted with them. But in a life or death situation I can understand what Sophie was doing.
However, the part that perplex me was her hesitation. She paused to shoot the thieves. Kelly would give instructions to aim and shoot but there was this wait time I didn’t understand. I would think you would shoot immediately after the command. Perhaps Sophie was nervous, scared or not confident.
Proud of Blind Actor

Overall, I enjoyed the movie. Adjustments are hard when people first lose their sight and that was pretty obvious with Sophie. There were just a couple of things that made this movie not totally realistic for me. That is Hollywood for you. The best part was the use of a blind actor. I am proud of being blind. I want to see more blind people acting and blind characters in films and movies.
Comments
5 responses to “Blind Actor Portrays a Relatively Realistic Blind Character in See For Me”
Excellent write-up! Spoilers are never that for me and only add to the intrigue. Your points and reasons are quite valid and interesting! I especially appreciate your exceptions, calling out the parts that make no sense to you. Kudos!
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Deli, thanks for reading and commenting. Yes, after I saw the movie I really wanted to say something about it. I wanted my post to point out the things that didn’t make sense to me without being too critical. It was a good movie and I love the blind actor most of all.
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Many times I’ve held back on wanting to “say something” and, afterwards, wished that I had. And, after many years, I continue to be haunted by that which I left unstated— the instances I could share with you!— so I’m revisited by the Cowardly Lion at the oddest times, namely in the wee hours when I can’t sleep. As you can imagine, it’s not easy walking that fine line: knowing “when to fold and when to hold” (Kenny Rogers). The older I get, the more insistent the Voice within to speak up and be heard. Two quotes come to mind.
“What I know for sure is that speaking our truth is the most powerful tool we have” (Oprah Winfrey).
“Ah, kindness. What a simple way to tell another struggling soul that there is love to be found in the world” (Alison Malee).
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Yes, I can relate. I wrote a post recently on working in a call center from home. I ended up quitting because of the stress. I felt the need to say something about the experience and so I did. But what was amazing is the post was picked up and listed in an accessibility newsletter. It connected with those subscribers so much so it was voted one of the top articles in the newsletter. This publication went out to lots of people. So, it told me even when I think I shouldn’t say something, I really should. There are people who get it. Even those that don’t it gives them something to think about.
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I’m so proud of you! My brother used to say, “Don’t do what’s right. Do the right thing.” He said a professor in his master’s program had taught him the difference. So, now that he’s gone, I treasure the sentiment even more.
Just one person can make all the difference in the world. There are more of the One You out there in the world that you (we) know. And, together, we can make a difference. So, thank you for heeding the call of service.
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